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Vera: Dance Video from Birthday Celebration

Here’s a link to a short video of Vera’s recitation and dance at the orphanage’s spring birthday celebration. We watch it at least once a day :-)

Thanks to Irina Shytova, we have a translation of Vera’s recitation at the beginning of the video; it is:

(Woman) Intro: Let’s see what happened with the little monkey…
(Vera): One young little monkey has been bored all day
Maybe I should get the scissors and adjust this dress today?
For the hostess it’s too tight, for her daughter it’s not right
Let me cut it off right now, so it will fit me real nice, and how!
Maybe I’ll go to the movies in it, O’WOW!

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The process from here.

In a few weeks – maybe 6-8, maybe more – the paperwork will come back from Moscow.

We will then be given a court date no sooner than ten days out.

Sharon and I will travel to St. Petersburg again and get examined by 8, yes, 8 Russian doctors, to confirm we aren’t dying of anything…

The day after that, we should get the medical reports. On day 3, we go to court. We will either get approved on day 3 or day 4.

If the judge waves the 10-day waiting period, we can then travel to Moscow to get the American paperwork in order. This should take about 4 business days.

If we have a 10 day waiting period, then insert that into the process.

That will be when we get on a plane and come home.

Richard

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Trip Report #3: Back in the States

Wow, we are back in the Good ol’ U.S. of A! Other than being wide awake at 3:00 a.m. every morning, we’re recovering well and have jumped back into our busy lives in Austin. We miss our little girl though, all the time.
Da Plane!

On Friday, we were told that Vera had gotten an upset stomach the day before after our trip to KFC and the Dolphin show.

The Dolphin Show in St Pete

They didn’t want us to feed her or upset her “system” which was precariously balanced on a specific diet at the orphanage. So, what did we do? We found bowling! There was this very nice 8-lane bowling alley that Masha took us to. They didn’t have bumpers, so all the scores were a little lower than normal. But a good time was had by all. Scott did recieve a minor injury when he whacked his leg with the ball, and after we all got up off of the floor, we suggested that he move his leg out of the way when he bowls :-)

Vera Bowling

We had a short day with Vera on Friday. That afternoon we went shopping for gifts at a shop named Red October that was just wonderful. The staff was really helpful. I had a nice conversation with the saleslady who asked where I was from. Upon learning that I was from Texas, she asked me if I had a farm and horses and lots of cattle.

After that we did a “speed tour” of the amazing Hermitage. We had exactly one hour to run through this giant palace at a full trot. It reminded me of some of the scenes in the Chevy Chase “Vacation” movies :-)

At the hermitage...

We were to meet Sharon’s friend Kate under the statue of the angel in front of the Hermitage at 5:30. But when we stepped out of the building at 5:32, we discovered that we could no longer get to the statue, as there were thousands of Russian sailors and soldiers drilling for the upcoming Victory Day (May 1) parade, and the statue was right in the middle of them.

the Parade

In order to avoid one of those Chevy Chase moments, we decided to look for Kate on the fringes of the crowd. Kate found us first. She said that she was looking for some American-looking parents with two boys. We suspect it was pretty easy for her. :-)
We went to a lovely Italian restaurant (or Pectopah in Russian) and had a really nice visit with Kate. Kate is also in the process of adoption. She is a teacher there with an Embassy school.
Then we did something completely foreign to all of us: we rode the subway back to the hotel. It was quite an experience, and we all agreed that as a transportation system, it really worked out well.

On Saturday, we slept in, rode the subway in the other direction, went shopping, came back, and met Natasha, our interpretor, Roman, our driver, and Vera, our daughter to be, in the hotel lobby. We decided that we needed to buy our little girl an outfit of her own. (In the orphanage, clothing is sort of community owned.) We wanted to give her something that she could call hers, even if only for a little while. We travelled to three or four shops before we located a shop that had something warm enough for late April. Let me tell you though, clothes in Russia are not cheap. In fact, they aren’t even affordable. I expect that we paid nearly double the American price. It seemed that this was true of many items in the stores. Lot of things were reasonable, but I don’t recall seeing any items that were a bargain, and many things were quite expensive.
Vera just loved her new clothes. The outfit included these really cool blue jeans, shirt, and a sweater. The sweather had a giant heart on it, and she looked just precious in her new outfit.
We had dinner (more Italian food) and then went to the circus.

At The Circus

The circus was a lot of fun, and was styled similarly to the Cirque du Soleil. Vera saw that many of the children had little flashing lights, and she just had to have one. So she dragged Papa down to the vendors and bought two little flashing lights that she could play with. They made her happy.

vera at the circus

In the middle of the circus performance, Vera asked Sharon to take her to the bathroom. When they got there, and Vera saw that the facilities were less than pristine, she held her nose and ran off. Sharon, looks left, looks right, and thinks “I’ve just lost my little Russian child. I’m going to rot in a Russian prison somewhere!” Vera had run right back to our seats, but Sharon lost several minutes looking for her before she came back to see if Vera had returned. There was a great sigh of relief when Sharon saw that all was well.

That night (Saturday) Vera came to stay with us in our hotel. She was bouncing off the walls, she was so excited. Sometime after midnight, she went to sleep. Sometime around 5:00 a.m. she woke up.
Vera and Aric shared many moments together.

By 6:00 she woke all of us up. We weren’t going anywhere until 1:00, and it seemed that 1:00 would never come…but finally, it did. Vera’s Grandmother and Masha met us in the lobby, and then we all went to eat – surprise! – Italian food at Il Patio.

Vera and her Grandmother

We then travelled by Metro to the Philharmonic Hall where we were to see an organ and trumpet concert. The kids, of course, fell asleep along the back walls :-)

children_sleeping.jpg

The trumpet performance was very good, but we got a lot of funny and amused looks from the crowd because of our three sleeping children. A photographer even came by to take pictures; apparently, children sleeping in public is an unusual sight there. Our transalator was a bit embarassed, and we all agreed to exit at intermission.
Vera Discovered Nintendogs for the first time.  She wanted to wash the dogs.

Vera Shows Aric Around

Vera floating in the air

Aric found a great gaming location in the hotel.

Vera likes to pose

Alexander Nevsky monestary

Kids playing on some payground equipment

After the concert, we took Vera back to the orphanage. We had to say goodbye there and it was tough. It was when I was walking out these big metal, Soviet-style doors that I almost lost it.
We got back to the hotel around 6:30, finished packing, and got ready for a 3:00 a.m. wakeup so that we could make our 6:15 flight to Frankfurt.

Next time, I will not put my pocketknife in the pocket of my rucksack. They frown on that in Russian airports. ;-)
Everything was going well. On the plane, they served us a breakfast of eggs and juice. I was quite happy to be going home — I missed being home. I leaned back in my seat to attempt another hour of blissful sleep. After a few minutes though, I broke out in a cold sweat. “Oh no you don’t!”, I said to my stomach. “Oh here I come!”, said breakfast.

I threw up three times. The last time was at the gate in Frankfurt, and they said I would have to convince the captain to let me board the plane. I barely squeaked by, but had no more trouble after that.

Now, here we are, back to our “normal” lives, and missing our little girl very much.

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Quick Pics

We’re swamped just after returning, but promise to update our journals soon. In the meantime, here are a couple of pictures from our trip.

Vera and Aric

Aric, Vera, and Scott

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Day 3: Dolphin Show in St. Petersburg. Who’da Thunk?

Today is Thursday in St. Petersburg, and we’re all pretty much adjusted to the time change. Sleeping is hard, though, since our rooms are overheated and it’s just too noisy to open the windows. Our hotel room overlooks the Neva River and several intersections, and traffic streams by all night. Add in the street cleaning machines, and it’s pretty loud. Plus, the number of street lights makes it hard to determine day from night. Oh, well, we’re otherwise very comfortable in Hotel Moscow.

Today we attended a special “birthday party” at the orphanage for all of the children who celebrate spring birthdays. Vera and some of the other children performed (poem and dance) for the party. Afterwards, we all shared tea and cookies.

We met Vera’s babushka (grandmother) and she really cares about Vera a lot. She wanted to make sure that we were going to be a good family for her, and we did our best to assure her that we would.

After lunch at KFC, we found ourselves at a “dolphinarium” and a dolphin show. The show was held at what used to be an Olympic training pool, complete with diving platforms. We were struck by the incongruity of attending a dolphin show when the ice has just broken on the river here, at an Olympic pool. Vera, Aric, and Scott all seemed to enjoy the show. We spent some time convincing Vera that she didn’t need to get in the pool with the dolphins.

Tomorrow we’re going to go bowling and visit with Vera, and then go to the Hermitage. We hope to meet an American friend here as well.

Saturday, we’re going to the circus, and then on Sunday, to an organ concert at the Philharmonic with Vera’s grandmother.

The days are busy, and the nights back at the hotel are a little too long. We’re enjoying our time here very much, and will hate to leave…but will also be glad to be back home.

Much love to everyone! Richard and Sharon

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First Days in St. Petersburg!

It was a long flight…and boy are our arms tired! OK, actually our posteriors are a little numb. And we’re all a little jet-lagged, naturally. I think another day here and we’ll be feeling a little more normal.

We’ve been here for 27 hours now. Learned that we don’t speak or read Russian nearly as well as we’d like. Last night, we wandered aimlessly around the Nevsky Prospekt trying to find something that looked like a pizza restaurant. Even with explicit instructions from our translator (who was no longer with us), we still couldn’t find it. Gave up, and decided to eat at the hotel where they have some English.

This morning, we had a meeting with the “committee” that grants permission for us to visit Vera. We then traveled to the orphanage to meet her, and she is absolutely adorable. Beyond cute. We were in a very crowded office (less than 120 sq ft) with about 7 Russian women. They brought in this little girl, dressed in a beautiful velvet dress. She came in looking like she was facing the gallows. Within about 5 minutes, however, she had warmed up to us; within 10 minutes, she was leading us by the hands around the orphanage to show us where she lived, her favorite toys, to present us with some beautiful artwork, and to dance for us. She is quite the dancer, performing two numbers with so much poise! She loves to sing, and breaks into song at random. Something about a koshka (cat) we think.

We were able to spend about two hours there at the orphange, and then had to go to the municipal “judge” (not exactly a judge, more an official) who asked us questions about why we wanted to adopt, and asked for the formal recommendations of the legal advocate. We managed all the questions and then he stood and announced his (unsmiling) approval.

We’ve seen a lot of the city from the back of a van, at mostly high speed. The driving here is exactly as described to us: erratic, bold, and white-knuckled. Amazingly, though, nobody seems to get into wrecks. A phenomenal demonstration of hand-eye coordination.

Tomorrow there’s a birthday party for all the children living in this orphanage who were born during the spring season. Vera will dance. We will also find out when we’ll get to meet her maternal grandmother. We found out today that she is formerly a professional pianist/accompanist, and is very “theatrical.”

We found out only a little more about Vera’s parents: Igor Lizunova is her father, and he was born in 1965; her mother was born in 1975. Medically, it doesn’t appear that she has any issues. She does have some work to do in the area of speech therapy. It’s impossible for us to tell, of course, but apparently her Russian pronunciation is a little delayed. The orphanage doctor doesn’t think this will be an issue. She appears to be tall for her age – only an inch or two shorter than Aric.

She has beautiful blue eyes, almost the same color as Richard’s. And honestly, she could be his natural daughter, they look enough alike. Aric and Scott are both very taken with her already. Scott said that she was the perfect fit for our family. Aric and Scott were both very excited to meet her and really enjoyed the time they spent with her.

We’re looking at different museums and arts events to visit, hopefully all with Vera. They’ve given us permission to take her out of the orphanage, even to spend the night if we wish.

We’ll send another note in a day or so. Sorry we can’t send pictures, but we’ll bring them all home with us.

Much love to everyone – Sharon and Richard

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Exciting indeed!

Here is another photo from last week.

Yes, we are excited!!!!! We also got some new photos.

A new photo from last week

Our travel dates are April 16 (yes, Easter) through April 24.

We were lucky at being able to save $2400 on the best price we could find for airfare by using hotwire.com YEA! Hotwire!

My question is, what do you choose to say as your first words to a little girl that is about to become your daughter?

Richard

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Travel Dates!

Wow, today’s been a big day! We expected to participate in a “travel meeting” with our agency – this is a meeting that covers legal issues and logistical issues for travel – but they had MORE news for us: the much-anticipated travel dates!

We’ll be traveling to St. Petersburg to meet with the Committee on Tuesday, April 18. Count the days in between – yikes!

Actually, we’re lucky. Many families get much less notice for travel. Not complaining at all. But it seems that, even with as much as we’ve done to prepare already, there’s so much to do in less than two weeks!

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